Today wake up at 1plus in the afternoon, den hubby came back from outside. As i should wake up in the morning to acc hubby go out de, but im too tired le wahaha so hubby ask his friend to go with him. Den when i wake up i called hubby ask him where is he:

Me: Dear where u now?
Hubby: Im at friend house playing DOTA *again*
Me: Oic i tot u still at outside, wanna ask u buy lunch for mi de. Den nvm *smiling*
Hubby: Who ask u dun wanna early call mi. I now playing Dota later den come back.
Me: Ok, rem to come back early as later u got work hor.

So he play till 3plus den come back home, rest for about 1hours like that bathe & perpare everything 5pm meet friend go work le. But b4 he go work, i was lying in bed with him till i fall asleep again. Den when he going out time, he wake mi up tell mi he is going to work le. Oh ya, he asked mi to help mi pack his clothers into a bag to bring to work place so that he can go there bathe. But end up i fall asleep *LOL* so end up himself pack it. Den after he went to work i contiune to sleep till 7plus den wake up.

Wake up 1st time i change the bedsheet, sweep the floor & mop the floor too. Den after finish all, i was so hungry but i still didnt eat. Cos hubby say wanna buy Mac for mi to eat when he come back. Den MIL already off work, so she called mi ask mi eat le ma. I say haven, den she say i buy Mac for u to eat wan. Den i tell her hubby later will buy for mi. But she say nvm she buy for mi so later hubby dun need to buy le. Den i say ok (: So waited for about 1hour moi Mac is here. So after eating when to bathe again, cos too sweaty le. Den hubby call.

Me: Dear dun need buy mac for mi le, mama buy for mi eat le.
Hubby: Ok, dear later i came back den go friend house play Dota *Dota again hais*
Me: U ask mama 1st, if not later she will call u & nag u de. *as MIL was bating while i in phone with hubby*
Hubby: U ask mama ans phone.
Me: Mama bathing lei pig *laughing*
Hubby: Den later u tell mama i go friend house play dota ok?
Me: Ok la, u rem to come back early hor. *smiling*

I allow him to go play dota till wat time oso can, cos tml he got no work. So i wont sad or angry with him at all. I will angry will him unless he got to wake up early or got work in the morning. If he work's in the noon time, i dun mind let him go out play till morning. Cos he will get enough sleep. But as what i say b4, i dun like him to play dota till morning den come back home sleep a few hours onni den have to wake up. I see him like that so tired i oso heartpain. He will say nvm de, but as his wife i will heartpain de ma. See moi own hubby so tired. So just now he called again, tell mi he end work le waiting for working bus to drive him back. I miss him alot too LOL

& he oso promise mi that he will bring mi out tml, so will see he wat time back wake le lor. Cos oso dunno what time he coming back later from his dota-ing. Hope wont play till morning ba *LOL*

K la, now waiting for him to come back home, den help mi to take all his dity clothers from his bag to put to wash le.

To PB: I dun mind you say mi that im say an excuse. But i know what im doing. If i really tied him till veri tight, i think he wont b going to his friend house for this 1 whole week to play Dota & even can go KTV with his friends le. So if like that concern him mean that i control him too much den i got nothing to say le. But what u say is oso rite shouldnt tied a guy so tight.

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Yesterday SIL called MIL to complain that she dun have freedom at her In-Law side. Cant use phone or go out. Mayb u ppl will say her hubby control her too much le. But she even complain to the cousin ask her call MIL too. Den MIL come back tell mi, den i tell her. May thier phone bill went up that y her FIL lock the phone.

Ok i understand why her FIL do this, cos when she got married & came back to here & stay due to she quarrel with her MIL & hubby too. Den when u came back here, she keep use the phone to call up chat-line ti find guys out to meet & drink. & even keep go out in the middle of the nite to meet up those drug taking ppl. Even she oso got take too. When she move back, we checked her room. We found a packet of DRUG. OMG, den i tell MIL, she was shock too. Den got one day she came back home to take things, just nice mi & hubby going out soon. So waited her & her hubby to come den we go out. But mi & MIL de room all locked up, cos whenever she come back sure will take some of our clothers back to her place de. Cos most of our clothers all gone to her place le. So when she went to her room to find those drug, she found it gone. Cos she called MIL & ask did MIL touch her things in her room. Den MIL ask her back, what things is that, why i touch. What thing to put lai de. *Pretent that MIL dunno* So she no choice tell MIL oh nothing nothing. But indeed she was guilty to say the DRUG things out, cos she know if she say what will happen. So she went back there & 2 day later called back & ask again. OMG, that mean she didnt even wanna to change at all ma, as she have to take kare her daughter onli not even 1yrs old. Yet she still wanna take those things. Dunno what she thinking. Hais

Now she keep saying wanna come back here & stay, but MIL dun wan. Cos she at there no freedom & have to look after her daughter herself not like here ma. Keep ask us to look after den she goes out meet chat-line guys & meet those drugger. I not stupid anymore, i tell MIL if she wanna me look after can ask her to play mi as babysitter money 1month 5oodollor. She dont even wanna work, den must as well look after her baby la. I rather go out work still got money take rather den stay at home help her look after her baby without any cents at all. IM NOT STUPID.

Hubby oso dun allow mi to look after too le, cos he oso enough of his sister bo liao things le. Everytime quarrel with her hubby, den keep call MIL say wanna move back here. Say at ther no freedom veri xin ku. Den come back here let her touch back those things. MIL not stupid too la. Husband is u ownself chose de, so accpect the hubby that u chose de. Dun complain it. MIL never force you to marry him at all. is u ownself want de. So dun complain that i like MIL de fault. Accpect the road that u chose!