{♥}renee™: =.= .... haii.... im so afraid.. im a failure~

мUммY☆xUeli: lidat is the girl fan jian ritez..? funni frenz u got.. wad a mother.. dun wan to take care.. still wan to giv birth..?

AUDA: hmmm sometimes, ppl get lost. They themself also dunno wad they want. Pang guan ze qing. so if ur fren fallen deaf ear on good advice. Just let her be.
AUDA: Every family got their own prob to take care of. we only can give advice, de rest is up to them. cause moreover, it's their family prob. we cant really say much into it.
AUDA: Clapping needs 2 hands. So if dat gal still so stupid-ly willing to go back & kanna beaten and bully, then is her business le..
AUDA: plus her hubby& family also willing to take care baby for her.. and continue to allow her to be such a irresponsible mother. so we cant say much. there might be more factors causing one another to be
AUDA: liddat.


Reply: IM TIRED LE, COS SHE STILL CHOOSE TO B BACK WITH HER HUBBY. DEN I TELL HER FAMILY, DUN LET HER BRING THE DAUGHTER BACK TO HER HUBBY HOUSE AT ALL. IF NOT WHO KNOWN WILL THE HUBBY BEAT THE BABY ANOT. & I TELL THE FAMILY DUN CARE ABOUT HER THINGS ANYMORE. EVEN THE MONEY SHE SAY WANNA GIVE HER MOTHER TO BUY CHINESE NEW YEAR THINGS DE, IN THE END WHEN SHE OK WITH HER HUBBY LE, DEN ASK HER MOTHER TO PAY HER BACK THE MONEY. WTF THIS KIND OF DAUGHTER OSO HAVE. GIVE MONEY ASK HER MOTHER TO BUY CNY THINGS, IN THE END ASK THE MOTHER TO PAY BACK. DEN KEEP SAY ALOT OF THINGS THAT MAKE PPL DUN TRUST HER ANYMORE. I VERI DULAN NOW. THE PROMISE THAT SHE SAY TO US ALL IS BULLSHIT. UP TO HER LE, IF SHE WANNA GET BACK TO BE BEATEN BY THE HUBBY, IS HER PROBLEM LIAO. WE ALREADY SAY & TOK TO HER SO MUCH LE. SHE STILL CHOOSE THIS WAY DEN UP TO HER.

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stranger: tell her if she love her daughter leave the bastard before it's too late. report to police or look fo and get what ever protection against him. Tell her dont be stupid n dont be a punching bag for him

мUммY☆xUeli: the guy really very **** lorz.. the girl like to get beaten by his husband arz..? before married to him already kena beat still want to marry.. CRAZY???

Reply: I tot her le, but no use. She even promise mi that wont care about her hubby anymore. But she still care, talk to her so many time le, she will always say she care her daughter & dun wan anything happen to her daughter wanna give her daughter a blissful family. But how can she give her a blissful family with a violence family. She even ask mi accompany her to report police that her hubby beat her. End up she change her mind say dun wan la, she love her hubby, dun wan divorce. Den now she move back to her mother there, den dun even care about her daughter. Her family member help her look after, den at night she go out. WTH about her, she think wat. Wanna give birth but in the end her family memeber look after for her. Den she happily go out. Keep say she stress. I dun think moi friend stress at all, i think the mother more stress. Have to look after her daughter & even working too. Bcos moi friend cant even get a job. Get a job work less den 1week den say dun wan work le. Cos veri stress, dunn she stress wat too. I feel pity for her daughter, like a ball lor. When she ok le with her hubby, she bring her daughter back, den when quarrel or say veri stress. Den say wanna bring her daughter back ask the family to help her look after. Den she doing nothing la, always go out. Den leave her daughter to her family. I oso dunno WTH moi friend & her hubby wan. The fellow say alot of time wanna divorce with moi frien, in the end oso nv. The mother in law even worst. Keep ask her to give in to her hubby, even kanna beat le, still ask her to give in. Wat kind of mother in law de. Oso dunno wat moi friend wan. Sometime moi friend words oso cant listen de, even her own mother oso tell mi. Better dun listen to much. Cos she promise her family alot of time & alot of things le. But oso nv do it. Even moi friend oso dunno trust her own family, rather trust her hubby side de. When she got a cheque, her mother say help her bank in den take. She say dun wan, she say her hubby will help her. WTH, that time quarrel den ask her mother help her bank in la. Den ok will her hubby le, den say dun need her mother help le, she rather wan her hubby help. Den now hubby beat & quarrel till like that le den still wanna go back to her hubby side. I super pity her daughter & family lor. Dunno how to help them?

мUммY☆xUeli: i think that the girl should divorce with him.. i dont mean to broke ppl family.. but the guy was sooooo ****..

AUDA: bin say "Tell the gal divorce lah.. stupid." Lols.
AUDA: when i say but they got chid liao.. he say " this wan of thing bo bian de. NO CHOICE.
AUDA: hmmm i also think divorce. cause this wan is family violence. "Jia Ting Bao Li". can call police and report him to jail de.
AUDA: if got body evidence to back up like bruises to show police, better. Bin say can sue him sumore -.-
AUDA: oya! can take Li Huen Fei mah.. can take money and out of dat family violence. good wad. right?
AUDA: if not, one day.. wad if that guy beaten up the daugther? Plus, it's not his child lor, he might will beat her up. If dat gal thinks nvm. she can tolerate dat guy & his fam. wad about her daughter?
AUDA: will her daughter be save? i dun think so in long run.

reply: Ya i oso think so, but the ger still love him alot & dun wan to divorce. Is not the 1st time get beaten up le. We tok to her alot of time le. Even be4 they get married the violence already start. I oso dunno y she still wanna get married with this kond of guy, i tell her if at 1st i know got this kind of thing happen, i will tell ur mother dun let u get married to him at all. Cos got 1st sure got 2rd or more de. Even now the guy still thinking is the ger fault. Not the ger wan divorce, is the guy wan now. WTF lor, the guy 30plus le still dunno how to think. Even report to police oso no use de la, that fellow oso dun scare de. Even that day when they quarrel & police came. That fellow still can tok to the police in a veri bad attitude. Like ppl own him de. I feel like slapping this fellow man. That y i oso tell the ger, think of ur daughter. Izzit u wan ir daughter to live in this kind of family. Even can juz anyhow bring ur daughter back to ur mother there without letting her know, until they reach the ger mother there den the ger den know it. WTF lor, they have to right to do thing kind of thing. I tell the ger, if the baby is his, he sure wont do this kind of things de lor. But the daughter is not his. Even when they quarrel & the ger was carrying the baby in her hand right, that fellow still dare to push the ger man. I wonder if the ger really fall down wat will happen to the ger & thr baby. I feel that fellow 30plus le, still act like a kid lor. Dunno how to think de. Childish man. If one day i really get to see this fellow, i sure tell him better be A AH GUA DEN A GUY. COS TA BU PEI BEING A GUY.

Today went to see moi precious Xuan. She was so shock to see mi LOL. Den went i reach moi mom there, She wasnt at there, so i know where she will b. So i went to the playground & find her, there she is. She was playing happily went i started to call out her name. Den she turn ard & saw mi, she quickly run & hug mi. So sweet lor she. Den after awhile mi & hubby was so hungry so we bring her to Mac & eat. As while we will eating, she keep playing non stop. So active de lor. Den after eating moi mom came, she say where moi hp was, drop in the toilet izzit. Cos she called mi twice & i didnt even know it at all. She was telling us that dun eat so much cos her friend there got alot of things eat, den go meet her friends stay there chit chat den ard 4plus ahead back home. Cos moi mother in law alone at home, as we dun wan her to be lonely ma. So went back early, but when we reach home, she called & say she will be late cos got abit of OT. Den sleep for awhile & den wake up for moi dinner le.

Oh ya, moi Precious Xuan will being starting school next week le. I asked her, izzit really wanna go school. Sghe say YES so happily. Good that she got learn computer in her school too. Den i ask her wanna learn dancing, she say Yes. Den i say next time i bring her to learn Dancing lor. I LOVE HER SO MUCH.



I got things to ask moi READER! Do u ppl will accpect a guy which beat ger up when the both of them quarrel. Izzit the right things to do when a couple quarrel & beat the ger up???
To mi i hate it alot. I cant accpect moi bf/hubby that will beat mi de. Cos those guy who beat up ger de, i will say them AH GUA.

Cos i got a friend who let the hubby beaten up, den the daughter is not the hubby real daughter. While they quarrel the ger mother in law ask the ger to go her 2rd gugu house 1st, so to let her hubby cool down. When say called back, her mother in law say come back have a nice tok. When she went back, her hubby say one words to her even when moi friend tell mi her hubby say this words i oso dulan the words is XUANG MA!!! After beat her, he say this kind of things, & is the guy fault lor. Den the ger sure angry de ma, so she wanna walk out of the house, den the hubby ush out & beat her again. WTH lo, this kind of facking guy oso have. After the ger to her 2rd gugu house again, while her daughter was at her hubby house. Den the hubby called the ger mom to say wanna bring her daughter back NOW at 10plus of the night!!! Den the ger went back her hubby house wanna to tok again, but no one at home. Cos they brought her daughter back ma. As they dun wan let her know WTF!! Den when the ger mom follow the ger in law den to fin d the ger. The hubby even wanna beat the ger in front of the ger mom sia. The guy think he wat, wanna beat den beat. Den the ger mom push her away. If not sure kanna beat again. Den after tok till veri bad, the mother in law oso say U BELIEVE I SLAP U ANOT to the ger. DEN THE MOTHER IN LAW STILL ASK THE GER MOM CAN SLAP UR DAUGHTER ANOT WTF SIA THIS KIND OF MOTHER IN LAW OSO HAVE. IF I HAVE THIS KIND OF HUBBY & IN LAW, I SURE WANNA DIVORCE DE. HUBBY SLAP DEN MOTHER IN LAW OSO WANNA SLAP. HOW COME GOT THIS KIND OF FAMILY DE. DEN THE GUY MOTHER VERI SIDE HER SON, EVEN HER SON FAULT OSO ASK THE GER TO GIVE IN. WTF, Y CANT THE MOTHER IN LAW ASK THE GUY TO GIVE IN. Y ALWAYS THAT GER. CAN U GUY THINK THE GER SHOULD GO BACK OR DO ANYTHING ELSE. COS I WAS THINKING, WILL THERE BE ANOTHER TIME SHE GET BEAT UP AGAIN. COS THE HUBBY TEMPER WAS SUPER BAD!!! ALWAYS HAVE TO LISTEN TO HIM, CANT SAY NO AT ALL. WTF GOT THIS KIND OF GUY DE, SO DA NAN REN DE K. DUN KNOW HOW TO GIVE IN TO GERS DE. ONLI MOI FRIEND HAVE TO GIVE IN TO HIM BUT HE CANT. DEN THE MOTHER IN LAW OSO ASK MOI FRIEND TO GIVE IN. PPL OSO GOT LIMT DE LOR, SO MANY TIME HAVE TO GIVE IN. DEN OSO DUNNO NEXT TIME QUARREL WILL GET BEAT UP AGAIN ANOT. SO NOW THE GER IS BACK TO HER OWN HOUSE.

SO U PEOPLES THINK, WAT THE GER SHOULD DO & SHOULD GER GET BEAT BY THEIR BF/HUBBY WHEN THE QUARREL??

This few days nv blog cos nothing happen, onli that Hubby's sister move back to her hubby house with her daughter too. Den whole day i can sleep & play le.

Oh ya mother in law brought mi a LV coin pouch, i like it sooooo much. Thanx moi mother in law pamper mi so much too. She brought mi alot of bags & accessories for mi. I feel so xinfu got sure a good mother in law. Love her oso Love moi mummy too. She oso brought mi alot of clothes for mi too. And the most is moi Hubby & precious Xuan too.


2008 is going to end soon le & 2009 is coming. I was thinking back, knowing moi hubby, dating with him, propose & get married. Everything was so fast. Know him less den half years, but i know that he is the one which i could be with for the rest of moi life with. From dating time, we did use to quarrel like others couple, even at outside i can show him moi stupid attitude. Even is moi fault but end up he is the one say sorry to mi. Wheneven how bad moi attitude is i will always wanna break with him when we both are quarreling. But end up oso nv break, so he keep please mi & Hong mi for forgiveness. After so many time of quarrel, he is the wan who give in to mi sooooo much. & i oso know that moi hubby change alot bcos of mi. Use to heard that he oso a attitude guy & hot temper too. But dunno y, when he was with mi. He totally change. Mayb love can let a person change ba. But as for mi, moi temper is still veri bad too till now. & he did even ask mi too change, & i juz say ok ok. But in the end still the same & he didnt even say. juz like mi throw moi temper anyhow. Sometime i was thinking back am i dreaming, how come i can found a guy which pamper & love mi so much den anyone else. & when i tell moi friend that m i serious to get married now, as i juz being with him not long. & i think back, the road i choose is right for mi. To married to moi Hubby, JianWen. Cos he really love & pamper mi alot. Even i oso cant image that moi mother in law oso pamper mi too. Hubby oso always try to give mi alot of surprise too. He really have done alot of things for mi, as i didnt expected at all. Sometime i feel bad as i keep give him attitude, IM SORRY HUBBY. As no matter how much temper i give u, moi love for you will nv change. Let the both of us walk the road together till the last breath of ours. Hubby THANX FOR EVERYTHING<3

Oh ya 2009 is the year that moi Precious Xuan schooling le. Veri fast lor, she going to 4years old le. Time file so fast, from the day i was preg & wanna to abort her till i decided to keep & born her & till now she going school le. Think back those years when she was juz a baby ger till know how to sit, claw, walk, run & now schooling. Some ppl say mi b4, did i regret to born her. NO i didnt. Even those years that she dun have Daddy, moi family help mi to bring her up till now she was so pretty & lovely. She is a veri playful ger but know how to concern for ppl too. Even when moi ah ma have to injection at home everyday. When she was it, she will feel upset & pain for moi ah ma. Even ask moi uncle dun inject for moi ah ma can. & she even CRY. I was so shock about it, See how a caring ger she is that she even juz 3years old plus. erm izzit she a veri lovely ger, let alot of ppl pamper & love her soooo much. I wish that moi precious will always stay HEALTH & CHEERFUL.


& on 2009, I WISH ALL MOI FAMILY MEMBERS & FRIENDS A HAPPY NEW YEARS & WISH THEY WILL ALWAYS STAY HAPPY & HEALTH (:

On Thur went TPY to have a dinner with mummy, uncle(mummy's bf), mi & hubby. Met mummy at 4plus cos the Oasis haven open. They start at 5.30. So b4 mummy them reach, mi & hubby went for walk walk, & hubby brought mi a top & a pant & oso a white jean too. Den oso we brought a bedsheet for our bed. Den awhile mummy haven reach hubby say go & have a drink, so we went to BK for a drink as to wait for mummy to reach. Den ard 4.45pm mummy reach. & she oso went to buy 2 3/4 pants for her working de. Den i tell her one of the pant we nice, at 1st she say not good cos the things will drop after wash. Den i say drop drop lor. Nvm wan wat, oso jus a design onli ma. Drop le the pant still can wear wat. Den she say dun wan, in the end oso buy lol.


Den ard 4.55pm we walk to the Oasis to see they open already anot & it was rainning too lor. Den while walk we saw "FROG" ard the pond lor. Den walk into the Oasis they ppl say 5.30pm den open ask we to go inside & wait. Ya, forget i oso brought a cake for Uncle too. Cos 5 dec was his Birthday but we cant celebrate for him, so celebrate early for him lor. Den mummy say wanna bring precious xuan come de, but she dun wanna follow mummy come. scare mummy sell her awhile. If i know she never go out, i will go down bring her out lor. I so miss her lor. But nvm sunday going down to see her. Oh ya so we eat till ard 6plus den veri full lor. So we ask the person to clear the table cos we wanna to cut the cake ma. She i got help mummy & uncle to take pic of the cake & them. Den ard 7 like that we walk to TPY Hub there to walk walk awhile den take cab back home. As mummy them oso too. Cos i tell mummy sunday den go see them ba.

Oh ya, moi Darling Xueli de son Yitto's birthday coming le on Monday. i still wonder wanna buy wat for him sia. I miss her & yitto so much lor. Nothing much to write le, cos later on morning mayb going out with hubby, if mother in law nv go la. But i hope she go den i dun nid go lor =)